don't look back, move forward

I think I speak for a lot of people when I say that when you’re having problems with your relationship, you tend to reminisce on the relationship you had with your ex, then comparing and contrasting the two.  I know it’s easy to fall into that, but it’s unfair to yourself and the person you’re with. If anything, you’re just going to mistakenly run back to the ex thinking that the relationship was good for you just because you’re not happy in your current one, but you and your ex ended things for a reason!  So the best thing to do is move on.  Whether it’s a break-up or working things out.  Don’t look to the past!